NoPayNoDate

About

NoPayNoDate is a dating platform designed to reduce ghosting and low-intent interactions by requiring men to place a deposit before contacting a woman. Women set the deposit amount (from $20 to $200) and can accept or decline each request with no obligation. Deposits are held in escrow through Stripe, so the funds are secured and automatically refunded if the woman declines. When a request is accepted and a date is confirmed, the deposit is transferred to the woman and the platform takes a 10% commission. The service is free to sign up and browse, with an optional premium subscription that adds profile boosting, a premium badge, priority access to new profiles, and priority support. Profiles are manually validated to help prevent fake accounts.

Problem & solution

Who it's for

Women and men seeking serious dating with less ghosting

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  zehanJul 21, 2026

  NoPayNoDate has great potential! A few improvements could make it even better. I'd love to share my feedback and suggestions. WhatsApp: https://wa.me/447307349530 Telegram: t.me/rforrank

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